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Every Vacuum Tells a Story

It’s two days after Christmas. Actually, if you want to get technical, it’s only December 21st. My kids and I celebrated early before they left to spend the week with their dad. This year it’s his holiday and whenever that happens we celebrate before they go. I sit on the floor surrounded by opened presents, cardboard packaging, leftover twine and shiny Christmas bows. Stockings and their contents spill out all over the rug and couches. Despite my best efforts to keep up, I continue to find remnants of beautiful Santa wrapping paper, sheets of colorful tissue paper and a stray gift bag. I return most of the gifts to each of my kids’ rooms noting each small pile and reflecting on the influence minimalism has already started to take on my life. There isn’t any “junk.” My kids have had a wonderful Christmas and are thrilled with their gifts but there isn’t an excess. There was nothing purchased “just to have something to open.” I was very careful to be intentional about each item we broug...
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Dominican Garlic Chicken Spaghetti

Garlic. Oregano. Cheese. Spaghetti like you’ve never imagined it. It’s not red, it’s orange, and it explodes inside your mouth with flavors that are clearly not Italian. They’re Dominican.  When my brother brought his wife over from the Dominican Republic, he brought her food with her. She didn’t wait a day to begin cooking, and I’ve never known anyone to be so comfortable no matter what kitchen they’re in.  This is so alike the spaghetti you’ve had and yet so different. To the best of my ability to recreate it, here is how it’s done:  Boil pasta until it is al dente. Heat olive oil and gently sauté several cloves of fresh garlic (do not mince; mashing is essential for authentic spaghetti). Add tomato sauce or paste, oregano, a little milk, cooked chicken and grated cheese to taste. Combine with pasta and salt to taste. Serve with salad. Bueno! 

Things

 Thoughts. Thoughts are things. Thoughts are things, because thoughts become things. Think about your thoughts. What you think about you bring about.  Things are thoughts.  Thoughts. 

A Writing Machine

 I’ve created a monster.  After years of not writing, I followed a gentle hunch that it might be the time and now it’s like I unstopped Niagara. Watch out and keep your lifeboats handy. I wouldn’t want any of you to drown in the floodgates of my years of pent up words.  I NEED to write. I crave it. Just like some people need to breathe, I guess. I mean, breathing is nice, but writing is vital. It’s kind of like how I feel about dancing. I need dancing like I need air too. Could it just be that I have an incredibly creative spirit that I’ve tried to tether for too long? You know, you can only keep air in a balloon so long before it escapes. My mind is always going, always gathering, collecting and creating. There’s a lot going on in there. If I don’t dance or write or create somehow, there’s literally nowhere for that thundering current to go and then sadly, I forget. The ideas dry up. And I start living as only a shell of myself, robotically going through the motions of a...

Plain and Simple

Our life has become somewhat predictable. There is comfort in structure and routines, something this rebellious carefree mama never thought she would say.   I thought about this tonight as I laid out Michael’s clothes for tomorrow - his signature look right now of black jeans and a fresh white t-shirt (yes, it makes me think of Plain White T’s and Rhythm of Love).  My charger wasn’t in its usual place and as I tiptoed carefully through a land mine of LEGOS in the dark (a successful obstacle course if you ask me), I just felt deeply how much I enjoy being a mother.  I always wanted to have my own children, from the earliest age I knew that was a possibility and I remember adopting anything I could as “children” until I got my own. Now, more than dolls or babies I would snatch at church or children I would babysit and pretend they were my own, I now have three little miniatures I grew in my own belly. They carry my DNA and we share the same last name (the one and only reaso...

On Doing the Right Thing....

Sometimes validation would be nice, but do the right thing anyway. Sometimes making a hard choice is terrifying, but do the right thing anyway. Sometimes people will judge you, mock you, hate you, try hard to stop you, but do the right thing anyway.  People are counting on you to stand up for what is right. This world needs more men and women who will fight against the evil that is trying so desperately to devour humanity. Be the good you want to see in this world every moment of every blessed day. Someday you may get thanked. Someday you may be forgotten. But the good you do in this world will never be undone. Amidst the opposition, and all the reasons not to, go do the right thing anyway.

Broken Things to Mend...

[Note: I took the title for this post from Elder Jeffery R. Holland's profound  talk of the same name.] I took a picture of these on my way out to show my mom and it got me thinking.... So many broken things in my life have been mended and healed throughout the process of my divorce. These planters are very sentimental because they represent this beautiful principle in my life. During my most recent move, both of these planters fell out of the car onto the concrete and were broken (the one trunk is still in the process of gluing). Out of everything in that move, these were the only items that were broken, and both were really special to me. My mom who knows I love elephants had gotten them for me and admitted to spending a little more than she normally would have because she knew I'd love them so much. To be honest, I was crushed to see them all broken up. But just as I was able to carefully piece them back together to again make a whole, Jesus Christ can pick up...